PATERNAL LOVE TO THE FAMILY by Vicente A. Valdez

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Being a Patriarch is Godsend 

Through the years being a Patriarch is power. They are the main characters who run their family with power and dignity. They hold the position that uplift a machismo character, strong and never be faltered by problem and hook to regard the best position in the society. 

The father figure is truly a mere status quo  strature pledging an effort to work hard for the family in order to support the needs of his offering's education,  family spending, and house maintenance. He often do , organize the financial activity and lead the planning with his family for investment. Thinking the betterment of  life through success and fulfillment. 

The father figure to his kids is the utmost preference to guide them with proper treatment and upbringings. Showing the morale , the good manners  and right conduct , the courtesy  a child would do while growing up. He nourishes love, respect and discipline.  As a father, he sees to it that his children do their school works , tutor them when needed .Parents are the first teacher and a father's sole part is to teach and guide them as much as they could. Rearing them from childhood to adulthood. Support them on their passions , likes, and dreams. Every success, award, accomplishments and achievements a child be is a feather on father's cap all the time. 

In a society where people are judgemental  about having a profession,  fathers are being noted if their kids never go to school or never finishes university. Like never you have accomplish one of your duties and obligations as a father if you don't persuade them to excel and finishes school.  

Contrary to the belief of others , father should not treat his children with favoritism. Treating them so could result into a sibling rivalry. Holding grudges about minding a favorite child reflects to hate and isolation. There's rebellion, insecurity especially when child is smarter than the other one. Giving incentives too is another factor which is the summary of jealousy perpetuating to run away from the family.

Just to sum it up, a father must be loyal to his family. No third party involve, no flings, no flirting if he's a family man. An act of concubination will sure hurt the family as a whole. The kids tend to disrespect the parent especially when the father has another family. His presence is often divided and sometimes misses special occasions when they are needed most. Thus having volume of persons involve, the wealth is divided and certainly inadequacy of support to the first family is scarcely done. 

Family is family and a father needs a family. No man shall not put asunder no matter what a family could be. Life is much brighter if a family has a father figure until the end of the endless time 

Vicente A. Valdez Jr 
Copyright Reserved 
Philippines ( Canada based)

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