PATERNAL LOVE TO THE FAMILY by Ate Mamu

Abraham Lincoln once said " God must love a common man, He made so many of them." Paternal originally a French word meaning "father" and paternal love is the feeling and action given by a father to his children.

A typical family always consist of parent (father and mother) and their children. But nowadays, broken family happened with some acceptable reasons, therefore, fathers left his family or sometimes mother lived by herself. Still, children are the one who's affected a lot. 

A fathers love contributes a lot to the childs growth and development, for shaping their attitudes and personalities upon their growing stage. 

Father is the sons first hero, and a daughters first love. A son usually looking up after their dads, the strength and power  he show on how to support his family. Children engaging with their father most often while growing tend to be more behave and develop a sense of communication and interacts well with others. They build a strong confidence within for they know that they have a father whose as strong as wall to protect them and feel secures at all times. He's her daughters first love. Naturally, there's no other man who could love endless than a father to his daughter. She is a jewel that no should try to break her or else... yes, or else that person should hide for the rest of his life. 

There are instances and situations that a parent broke up and decided to part ways, acceptable reasons or not, children were left broken and incomplete. This will affect the child's growing years and development at ball aspects. At thia point, a mother becomes a father too. Twice the work, twice the stress, twice the laughters and tears, twice the oressure to balance everything and twice the love. A mother doing it all, has a strength of a thousand man doing everything for her children and have a golden heart of steel to cover up emotions and broken heart.

A single mother  playing fantastic roles both as a father and mother for her children never lose the chance of having a children grows completely as a human. It is quite hard and difficult yet amazingly honorable. 

Paternal love has legacy and no boundary, a good father never let his children fall and broken, he sacrifice and make sure that they will have a better life and future... without a fathers presence, a mother can do it all for her family. 

© Ate Mamu.

Philippines.